A toenet rabbanit (rabbinic advocate) is a legal representative similar to a lawyer, who works exclusively in the rabbinic courts. I represent my clients in divorce and post divorce issues, as well as prenups and postnups, and inheritances. I make every effort, however, to steer clear of court conflicts and prioritize mediation in order to reach an agreement.

Divorce will always be painful but there is far too much unnecessary suffering going on in the process. After going through my own divorce, I wanted to use my experience to help others stay focused, be true to their goals and not get sucked into the emotional traps of waging a war. We all need to feel listened to and validated, especially during a divorce. I help my clients clarify what they need, and encourage them to stay focused on what is important in their lives. I don’t let them get carried away into meaningless wars but, I also don’t let them give up so fast. My goal is to help create a balance which reflects their values and their needs. I work together with my clients to develop  good, realistic strategies and I offer lots of support.

While I strongly advise mediation as the best way to settle differences (it’s a gentler way to create a comprehensive divorce agreement), it may not always be possible. In these situations I litigate for my clients in the rabbinic courts, ensuring that their voices are heard and their interests are protected.